SILENT OR POINT OUT?

😔SILENT OR POINT OUT😇? HOW?
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Sometimes we rather keep silent and feel hurt than talk about our feeling towards some issues. It is not wrong to point out what is needed in a good manner. I got a friend who ends the marriage but they were never arguing on anything since they get married.
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She told me she kept the frustrations on many things because too afraid to talk with a "nice husband" labelled by her family. She just silent because everyone around her stated he is an ideal man. Every partner need communication in order to understand each other better.
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❤️ precisely - point out one main issue not drag the 10 years issue
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❤️ use the word "we" rather than "you" such as
I am afraid our relationship will be worse if we both busy with our gadgets rather than spend time together.
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❤️ listen when he explained.do not defensive
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❤️ Encourage 2-way communication (ask his opinion on what activities you both enjoy without gadget: example)
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❤️ hug and kiss after discussion
the issue is we do not fight for the win but we fight for the relationship to win
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Men complained women be more like "mother" than "wife" after getting married? Is it true.. 😁
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NRK

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