🔥Are we a difficult person🔥?
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We have to deal with many personalities of people. Some people are really big test to others until their appearance make people feel judged and uncomfortable😇 while their disappearance never been missed🙃.
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Maybe we also did not realize in certain situation we are changing our personality to be a difficult person to deal with. Take a deep breath🤩 and take some time to think🧐🧐. Therefore, thinking awhile is better than perform goodness thousand years.
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Analyze what had happened during the day before we sleep and which part we can improve while we got a chance. We could hurt😔 people we love unintentionally with our actions and even voice tone⚡️. I admitted this is my difficulty in relationship as I was too long live independent as "single lady" and if I decided something it just only on me and me 
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I hardly enjoy listening light-matter moreover about gossips in entertainment news, stupid jokes or fantasy movies but does it kill me to consider at least smile in responding when my companion try to cheer me up with those listed things. He tolerates to do thing he did not enjoy, so I should tolerate too. It is not a weakness to adjust yourself with others in order to have a better relationship. Not only with spouse, your siblings, family, in-laws and friends.
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At this age, I am really concern more about time spend with people I love, stop comparing my life with others, quality over quantity and slowly declutter my life in each aspect including social media. I limit people I connect in my circle online or offline. I remove toxic people from my surrounding or at least limit my connection if I totally cannot disconnect them. For me, it means I respect my life and them. The meaning of our life is defined by us.
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